Comments on: Dating as a christian

By: xaveelala

xaveelala — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:43:10 +0000

Amen to that

By: SpiritedxAway

SpiritedxAway — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 03:21:47 +0000

This is absolutely true, wonderfully said.

By: cocochynel

cocochynel — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 02:39:55 +0000

Ok to be honest marriage is only designed for those who are truly saved in Jesus Christ. Why do I say that? We are suppose to be a reflection of Christ and the Church which is the ideal marriage. But because we have allowed the world to shape what a relationship is. Women are suppose to wait! He who finds ladies not she who finds..and then at that He who finds a wife! A woman that is single should cleave to wise women of the church for direction and exercise marriage responsibilities singlely.

By: blrgrl

blrgrl — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:59:47 +0000

Hi – this is so true. Along with being celibate, I am seriously considering not kissing until marriage – kisses may seem harmless, but it can affect women more so than men, imo. Thanks for sharing.

By: blrgrl

blrgrl — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:16:12 +0000

So true – I just got dmped by a Christian musician and it was poison in many ways because it felt like Satan was doing alot of things to get in the way of us centering our relationship around God. Thanks for sharing.

By: blrgrl

blrgrl — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 01:02:27 +0000

Amen to that! After many years of dating, and having my heart broken recently by another Christian, it made me realize that I really need to stabilize my relationship w God before I can date.

By: blrgrl

blrgrl — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 00:57:53 +0000

I agree with Kowhai86 – “it’s harder for christians that r dating because they have high expectaions put on them. you do something wrong like sexually with your partner and you feel guilt and are disgusted by your actions” < –happened to me recently

By: SaintJohn86

SaintJohn86 — Sun, 07 Feb 2010 00:36:59 +0000

The problem is that people that say they are Christians really are not because if they were they would be serving God and letting God guild them to the right mate instead of trying to help God out. Also, with the women that say God told them that a certain man was theirs that is a lie because a man chooses the wife and the wife chooses the husband, the bible says he that find a wife find a good thing, not a woman find a husband, woman are suppose to be patience waiting on God.

Take care

By: ThickMadame41

ThickMadame41 — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 23:42:06 +0000

Yes well said, good to see and hear..Amen..

By: LeleeLyons

LeleeLyons — Sat, 06 Feb 2010 23:10:47 +0000

Its all the same. The only difference is one is spiritual and the other is not. These leaders use “God” to lure women in their little world, especially if they dont know Christ. Thats why i treat them all the same.